Wedding Traditions and the Meanings

Ever wonder why we have such traditions of cake cutting, garter and even bouquet tossing to single ladies. And here are the histories of such traditions.

Cake Cutting

Ancient Romans as a symbol of her fertility bake cakes made of wheat or barley and break it over the bride’s head. In its earliest origins, the unmarried young women attending the wedding were expected to scramble for the grains to ensure their own betrothals, much as they do today for the bridal bouquet.

As time passed, it became traditional to stack cakes atop one another. The bride and groom then asked to kiss over on top and if they won’t stumble the cake means a lifetime of good fortune was certain for the new couple. During the reign of King Charles II of England, it became routine for cake to become edible palace iced with sugar.

Garter and Bouquet Toss

During the 14th century, it was expected for the bride to throw her garter to the men, but men got too drunk and become impatient and try to take the garter off her ahead of time. Eventually groom got into the scene and saved his dear bride from the uncontrollable mass. It is less trouble for bride to toss her bridal bouquet instead.

Wine/Champagne Toast

Wine has been used for celebration ever since. Wine has imply life, strength, love, and a life of prosperity. Drinking wine from a common cup has been the intimate mark of deep sharing. “Entwined as the Vine. . . .” It is also in remembrance of Jesus turning the water into Wine as his first miracle at the Wedding of Cana in Galilee. It can be celebrated intimately during the Ceremony between the bride & groom or it can be at the Reception or both.

Eating wedding cake and wine toast is the origin of the Wedding Eucharist matrimonial wherein a portion of the ceremony is giving each other a sup from the Cup of Love and to eat from the Bread of Life and Health.

We call it a “toast” when we drink to someone because of an old French custom in which a piece of bread was put in the bottom of the wine cup (for flavor).

Dove Release

For century’s releasing dove was a part of wedding couples as symbols of their everlasting love for one another.  Color of doves symbolizes purity – that both Bride and Groom are pure to each other – they are honest and open, beginning their lives as one “from this day forward.”  And as doves choose one partner and mate for life. Doves flying home together, symbolizes couple starting off on their journey together to start their own. Some cultures believe if a couple see a white dove on their wedding day is a sign of good luck and good fortune that will last throughout their marriage.

I LOVE YOU LOLA FOREVER

Last Nov 10, 2011, I woke up a bit early than usual because my Tita Bebeth texted me to drop by at Lola’s house before I go to work to check Lola Toyang;s sugar because it abruptly dropped again. At around 830am I left the house and went to Lola took her sugar and it was 314 already so I was confident that my Lola will be fine. I talked to her and reminded her to eat or else I will insert Intravenous Fluids as ordered by my doctor brother. My Lola answered back “oo” then asked me “San ka pupunta?” I answered back “Papasok sa work”, then I left.

 After 40 minutes my cousin called and said my Lola’s gone. At work I cried pale of tears. I texted my mom, I think Lola waited for me because I always says that she will wait until my wedding because she will attend the event and I will buy her beautiful dress. I felt that she bid goodbye to me and saying can’t be on your wedding so she waited for me before she die. I am so sad but need to uplift myself because I am at work. 

Then the 6 mourning days passed, November 15, 2011 was the day to lead Lola to her last resting place. Tita Mely asked me to share speech about my Lola. And here are the words from my heart:

Today we say goodbye to someone whose love was and is so important in our lives-Lola Toyang. Her life was one that touched each of us in special ways. Her whole life she loved her family and served them well. Together with granpa they brought up five wonderful children. Grandma shared their kids' joy as she welcomed 5 grandchildren and only one great-grandchild. She had lots of friends and shared in their happiness.

As we look back on how Lola Toyang touched our lives, we each embrace our special memories of her. We remember how she would love to play with her kids and her grandkids and especially with Migo. We remember how she always made sure that everyone who enters the door eat ... and always asked "Kumain ka na". We remember how much she loved to talk with us, and how her smile would positively glow as she listens to what story I am telling. She shared our joys.

We remember her always reading the bible on the doorstep, walking around the subdivision and watching baseball games with umbrella on her one hand.

We remember how she was always glad to see us, how she would welcome us, then say "San Kayo galling?” at “San ka pupunta?" and this was the last words I heard from my Lola because I am the last person who visited her. She would then say “Kumain kana dyan”. Every time I talked with her, she’s saying “mag-asawa ka na”.  I always tease Lola of me going to have my baby for her to see and always saying to her that she will be attending my wedding and I will buy her beautiful dress. But unfortunately she can’t be physically present anymore. But the whole mourning days I always said that Lola will be in the picture for sure beside me and Tic.

 I also remember how my dad loves her so much and how she love my dad. Lola stayed with us when my dad was ill. And my mom always says she’s a very kind and loving mother in-law. She helped my mom in her own ways when my dad passed away.

We remember how she prayed for us and how her prayers are with us now. When something came up and we didn’t know how to deal with she always advice - to pray on it. Her faith and devotion to the Lord, I believe she has found Eternal Rest with our Lord.

I remember her hope to her kids, grandkids and her great-grandkid, that we would find happiness in our lives, that we would grow to be good and loving people. I know that she’s not disappointed in any of us. She was so proud to see all of us together steady. So happy to hear our delight as we remembered what about her we treasured so much.

You can see the optimism she has given us, when among the tears we shed, there was so much gratefulness and so joy that she had brought into our lives. You can see the faith she shared, as we gather here to commend her spirit into the trusted arms of our Loving God for eternity. You can see, most of all, the love she gave without end and tirelessly to all of us, in that we come together today and remember her.

And so Lola Toyang’s life was one of faith, of optimism, and of love. The greatest souvenir that she gave us was her love. We love you, Lola. We will miss you. And we will always remember you. I love you Lola

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While reading my message to Lola my tears are flooding continuously. Felt bad that we lost her. But after listening to my Tita Nescie’s message I felt good and better that my Lola’s not anymore with us because I heard from Tita how painful his sufferings which was not mentioned to me as her nurse at home. I salute Lola because she can handle the pain even though it’s killing her, she keep on hiding to herself all the pain. After hearing that I felt good that now she has no suffering that she’s happy wherever she is right now. She’s together with my dad and my Lolo. I’m happy that she not experiencing further pain. I felt light and thankful to the lord for ending her grievances. You will always be on my prayer. I love you Lola Toyang.   

STRICTLY ON A BUDGET

Budget is strictly needed now a days but when it comes to my special day it is effortless to spend for my nuptial. But of course I need to take note always our budget. of course I don't want to wake up the morning after my wedding penniless. So I created the allowed wedding budget for me this is around Laguna area (Calamba, Cabuyao, Sta Rosa Laguna).

1. Church (P5000-P15000) - It depends on what church and where, in Sta Rosa Complex it is P5000 with basic flower arrangement in the aisle. While in Don Bosco Sta Rosa near Paseo De Sta Rosa it is P15000 only church payment if we will use aircon it is P18000. Same price goes with Our Lady of Lourdes Parish Church in Aguinaldo Highway. Then the price with Ina ng Laging Saklolo Parish at Sungay West Tagaytay price list varies Non-parishoner is P10000, if both couples is parishoner only P3500. very cheap ha though it is located in Tagaytay.

Chair of Saint Peter Parish Church (outside)

Don Bosco Church Sta Rosa Laguna (inside)

Don Bosco Church (outside)

Our Lady of Lourdes Parish Church (outside)

Our Lady of Lourdes Parish Church (inside)

Ina ng Laging Saklolo Parish (inside)

Ina ng Laging Saklolo Parish (outside)

2.  Wedding Reception (P10000-P50000) - Only few reception is available in Laguna but there are lots of clubhouse, resorts and very few hotels.

ayala greenfields clubhouse

ayala greenfields clubhouse

pramana subdivision clubhouse

pramana subdivision clubhouse

3. Hotel Stay (P3500-P6000) - Only few hotels are available in the area.

4. Caterer (P350-P1200/pax) - There are lots of caterers providing scrumptious meals at a affordable price. So it defends on the couple who to choose and also try to book on wedding expo or caterers event day so you can avail freebies. Just make sure the caterer will satisfy your guest taste buds.

5. Invitations (P2000-P4000) - I already chose the paper prints company that will do our invites it is Printed matters but only P2000 worth of invites will be printed by them. Then the remaining invites will be DIY because I am use to doing electronic scrap-booking so I know I can do it very well.

6. Wedding Gown / veil / gloves (P25000) -  I already scouted couturiers in the area and in Divisoria. I found one couturier with fantastic bead work and perfect fit and finish at Divisoria (just forgot the name). If not them I will get the service of the couturier of my sister in law it is located in Navotas. 

7. Grooms Tux (P7500-P10000) - We already found a good couturier in Divisoria at a very cheap price it is all complete already. wow!

8. Photographer / Videographer (P30000) - We choose a budgeted Photovid but elegantly produce an output. It is my brothers OTD. I already booked with Studio1 Photography and Videography.

9. Musicians (P10000) - My boyfriend sister requested a band or musician if possible. No idea yet of whom group to get.

10. Souvenirs (P5000) - This if for principal sponsors and my "abays" only. This is my token for them. My plan for the rest of the visitors will be photo booth and lucky us because this is already a freeby at my photovid.

11. Wedding Rings (P15000) - I am not really into rings so I rather choose a simple yet elegant ring. I am actually planning to just amend our gold plated spoons and forks into a wedding ring design by me. But until now i don't know what style. Because I always misplace my rings that's why I don't give too much attention on that.

12. Hair and Make up Artist (P10000) - Don't know yet whom to get but i wont go to far.


13. Flowers (P10000) - I will only get the service of florist. I will be the one to buy flowers the I will ask him to arrange it the way I want.


DIY PLANS:


* Styling - I'm not planning to get any professional help on this. I will be the one to take charge. I will prepare ahead of time the look I forsee and the designs I choose.
*Cord - will buy beads at Quiapo
* Candles - will buy plane white candles then decorate it according to the theme of the wedding
*Ring Pillows - will beautify it to unify with the theme
*Flower girl basket
*Pomander
*Pews/tulle
*ceiling swags and draping

ENCHANTED KINGDOM @ 16 YEARS

Its is Enchanted Kindoms 16 Years Anniversary. So lots of events is tailored for this grandiose celebration.  Some of the events are listed: 

Search for Little Princesses and Prince. This cute kids will show their talents and show what they have to become the prince and princess of the magical kingdom.

16 magicians will showcase their magical talents.

and this outstanding performance will enchant you unknowingly.

and again the most awaited fireworks competition with international contestants.

Sweet 16 Birthday Celebrants Promo (Wednesdays to Fridays from October 1 to 31)

A birthday treat for you! Free RDP tickets await park guests who turn 16 in October, plus 20% off on tickets purchased by the celebrant’s companions, maximum of 10 persons.

Student Sembreak Anibersaya Promo (October 12 to November 13)

An anniversary treat for students of ALL levels! Every purchase of one EK Day Pass for Php350.00 shall entitle you to one hotdog on a stick and 12 oz. Pepsi drink. 

Enchanting Sweet 16 Merchandise Promo (October 1 to 22)

Get the chance to win EK merchandise treats! Simply claim your raffle coupon at the Eldar’s Tent and drop in the designated drop box. The Enchanting Sweet 16 raffle draw will be held on October 22 during the Asian Sky Wizardry Fireworks Competition. 

16th Anniversary Sale (October 1 to 31)

Eldar the Wiz treats one and all to a 16% discount on selected premium EK merchandise, including Eldar’s Hat and Crystal USB.

Take Me Home Eldar Doll (October 1 to 31)

Park guests who avail of a Regular Day Pass will be entitled to a 25% discount on any Eldar toy!  Simply present your ticket or wrist tag and bring the magic home with your very own cuddly Eldar.

Enjoy PEPSI for 16! (October 1 to 31)

A special anniversary treat from Pepsi! Park guests may purchase food items from any EK cart or kiosk, and Amazon Grill and Launch Time restaurants. Upon purchase, guests may avail of the P16.00 discount on the 16oz. size Pepsi.

COLOR SCHEMES

Shout and loud colors are my preference:

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Mostly pink, orange, red, blue. So refreshing to eyes...

FOOD TASTING WITH QUIDOS CATERING

It was a rainy day but because still need to got up and went to an event I booked ahead. It is Quidos Grand food tasting at Tribeca Clubhouse. I prepared and went to the said schedule. I reserved  seats for 3 pax for my mom, ratsic and I.

corner design of principal tables

backdrop sample

scrumptious buffet

perfect backdrop for winter theme

tiffany chair with pews

buffet center design

free cake sample

twigs with crystals

sample setup

flaming -- forgot the name of drink. hehehe

sample setup of tables

 I love the foods of Quidos. Yummy! And the rates of Quidos is superb also. We chose their Mixed Cuisine -  APPETIZER: Assorted cold cuts.

SOUP: Crab and Corn Soup

SALAD: Green Salad Bar (6-8 toppings) with Thousand Island Dressing

MAIN COURSE:

Morcon

Chicken Teriyaki

Fish Fillet with garlic sauce

Buttered Mixed Vegetable

Fettucini Carbonara in White Sauce Bacon and Chicken

STEAMED RICE

DESSERT:

 Mango Tapoica 

Chocolate Mousse

Free Flow Ice tea

Chocolate Fountain

For inquiries contact:


09272605852 / 09175027472
703-6272 / 710-9474 / 881-7472
www.quidosgrill.com
www.quidos.multiply.com

MY DREAM CHURCH FOR WEDDING

Annually I came here to do the station of the cross. The first time i saw this church I already wanted to have my wedding here.

I inquired at the office of the church but sad to say they are not allowed to perform a wedding because they are a retreat house. tsk tsk... too bad only 2 church was allowed to perform wedding ceremonies.